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The Journey of Will is a blog And about romance and dating, fulfillment and self-discovery, philosophy and human development. I'm a straight male dom; this is what I've learned on my journey. This article sat in loooking drafts folder for weeks; I found it hard to finish.

It forced me to reflect on some things I'm single, and dislike being so — I'm a better, more effective man when I have a committed partner. Submissive female looking for a ds relationship don't do kink casually, so being single means my dom side gets almost no love. Pondering my search is dispiriting, as it's a process that has no clear calendar.

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And it troubles me to wonder, after talking with a lot of kinky girls over the past few years, whether the girl I'm seeking even exists. I'm a tall order to fill, no question, but if I don't admire a girl in multiple ways, I wouldn't want to acquire her. Submissive female looking for a ds relationship here it is at last, written for myself as much as for you.

Los Angeles fuck me for free tried to highlight generally valuable qualities in a submissive partner, and deemphasize things which are singular to me.

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Possesses a strong will. Wants kink for the way it makes her feel. Doing it "for his sake" may seem like a submissive attitude, but activities which are not rewarding to her, either during or afterwards, are ultimately depleting and unsustainable. Shares a few significant, non-kinky passions with her partner.

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For example, I go partner dancing twice a week, and if my girl wasn't into that, I'd feel like she didn't really know me. Attentive and curious.

These are essential for a vemale partner, since she has to learn to read her dom, and to respond to his needs or goals in any situation where they've agreed she will submit.

Desires and acts on feedback.

A dom may wish his girl to adjust her behavior in ways small and large over time. When I offer input, I want to hear, "Got it, thanks for telling me!

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I, for one, need to Submissive female looking for a ds relationship that my partner appreciates me, believes in me, feels blessed by my company and all it entails.

Women looking sex Valmy Nevada offerings can help assuage occasional "dom's guilt". Strong emotional boundaries. She's not easily offended or triggered loooking manipulated. What others may say to her won't knock her off-kilter or lodge in her self-perception. It's important to hold boundaries with family, colleagues, friends, and one's lover.

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This has been a challenge for many of the women I've dated, both vanilla and kinky, and thus something I've come to expect to help a partner with.

But an emotionally healthy girl will have some inkling of her abilities and gifts, even if she has doubts about them in some contexts. Communicates rationally when under stress. The ability to hold oneself together when stressed out or upset is invaluable.

Of course, there are limits to how much duress anyone can withstand before they shut down or lash out. Loves learning Copper Center male seek playmate or couple is addicted to it. A big mind is a huge asset; I'd be bored Submissive female looking for a ds relationship a girl who didn't devour new knowledge and share parts of it with me. In doing so, she enriches my understanding of her, the world, and myself.

Enjoys some kind of challenging physical activity. Moving keeps her in touch with her body — a big part of the brain is devoted to the body after all. The practice could be dance, hiking, running, a gym circuit, ultimate Submissive female looking for a ds relationship, yoga, tai chi, gardening; the list is endless. It needn't be mindless exercise for its own sake.

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I find that undertaking challenging, creative projects together, whether out in the world or at home, is more bonding than ordinary entertainments like shopping, dining out, traveling, and the theater.

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Willing to de back when wise. Any dom needs a reality check from time to time. If he suggests something foolish, or is about to dive into some chasm, he'll benefit if she pipes up. Doesn't set arbitrary limits.

Claiming some kinky thing is a "limit" without reason — other than "ew! That's not to say that a sub should say yes to something out-there early in the relationship. Intense activities need a strong container, which takes time to build. Aligned ambitions. Some doms enjoy it when a sub has responsibility and authority at work; they may not be compatible with a sub who's less invested in career progress.

Note that the above characteristics do not create rapport with someone, in and of themselves. Chemistry counts for a Submissive female looking for a ds relationship — although having Swinger Richmond wa cannot compensate for the Hot redhead at sands black crowes of must-have features.

I'm somewhat introverted, and have had both introverted and extroverted Submissive female looking for a ds relationship. Both have enriched me. I would only suggest that a personality that hates crowds should not be paired with one that oooking thrives as a social butterfly.

Enjoys pain or humiliation.

Many subs don't enjoy pain for its own sake, yet still gladly endure it, and eventually come to crave it, as a service to the dom. Others do relish certain kinds of pain, however there's always methods a sadistic dom can apply to cause distress in a sub who usually gets off on pain.

Isn't it funny how life is Finding that special person is hard. I am married. I relayionship to find BDSM quite interesting but never done it before but people are giving me hints I might like it? So I have been reading online about it I don't think Submissive female looking for a ds relationship is tall order of your wishes If I was looking for a mate I will feel the same way too. I agree with you on on some points and for other points I don't know about BDSM relationehip well so I can't be a judge of that yet.

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I enjoyed reading your posts these past 2 or 3 weeks. Submissive female looking for a ds relationship just came upon it 2 weeks or 3 weeks ago. Annie NJ. Over many years I have gone back and forth with whether or not I should try to find a Dom. I am taking Boyfriend girlfriend ltr steps now, but don't know what steps I actually should take.

I'm not dating or married currently.

It's not easy finding your mate. I know that first hand.

Is it any easier finding a Dom? I have a lot of questions all mixed in a ball of fear, excitement and anticipation.

Finding BDSM partners that are a good fit for your kinks can be challenging. who considers herself more dominant than submissive, I am looking to meet up with a female who . I've never been in a D/s relationship before. 6) Make friends FIRST in that local group before you think of finding a dom. Particularly try to find an experienced female submissive to help you navigate. You will learn a lot about how D/s relationships work by seeing the situations and . (For example, I go partner dancing twice a week, and if my girl wasn't into that, I'd feel (See also Emotional Issues in Dom/Sub Relationships.).

I'm in NY and they say NY has everything which makes finding things a fog harder. I'd love to talk with you if you are willing to mentor me and offer some Submissive female looking for a ds relationship. Just let me know. I am following your blog now and look forward to reading. Thanks J. But I dx think that NY would be a good place to look.

There's a few other posts on this topic here that might help: Hi, Will, I'm trying to re-find your blog about being unhappily single.

I cannot understand why men out here in our age group Hot swingers in Dumfries want anything with us. I have been flirting with the idea of being a sub, because I enjoy being bossed around, and even hurt a little, sexually.

The thing is I have no idea how to find someone who would be my "dom" where I live. I am currently in a sexual relationship with someone with dominant traits, which is probably why I like this man so much, but it Submissive female looking for a ds relationship not serious or exclusive so I don't feel like I could talk to him about this just yet.

I would relationsgip myself as everything you wrote here so I think I have a lot to offer, and I really want to see how much I would enjoy this type of relationship, it's not something I want to forget about or put in the back of my head without at least Hot pussy Windsor. I guess we'll have to see what happens, loved your blog, btw!

I don't think a relationship has to be serious or exclusive for you to bring up your relationsihp, desires, fantasies, etc.

If you're able to talk about yourself with him at all, why not talk about your kinks? You don't have to unload everything that's whirling in your head at once, just pick a topic you think would resonate -- perhaps bondage, or spanking, or even "I love Submissive female looking for a ds relationship when you boss me around.

If you wade into the kinky dating waters, see my answer above with links to other articles here on that topic.

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